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A hillside horizon at dusk
Portrait of Robert James Anderson

Robert James AndersonBig Rob

March 14, 1942 – November 2, 2025 · Age 83

Born in Kerrville, TX · Died in San Antonio, TX

Beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend.

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He met every road, and every person, with an open heart.

His Life Story

Robert James Anderson was born on March 14, 1942, in Kerrville, Texas, the second of four children raised on a small cattle ranch by his parents, Walter and Louise Anderson. He learned early to work with his hands — mending fences before school, and by sixteen he could rebuild a truck engine on his own. That practical, unhurried confidence stayed with him his entire life.

After graduating from Kerrville High School in 1960, Robert enlisted in the United States Army, serving four years and completing a tour that took him far from the hill country he loved. He often said the Army taught him discipline, but Texas taught him patience — a joke that made his grandchildren laugh every single time he told it.

In 1967, at a church social in San Antonio, he met Margaret "Peggy" Whitfield. They married the following spring and spent the next fifty-seven years together, first in San Antonio and later on a small property outside Bandera where Robert kept horses until he was well into his seventies. Robert and Peggy raised three children — Michael, Susan, and David — and later doted on six grandchildren, all of whom called him "Big Rob."

Robert spent thirty-two years as a service manager for a regional trucking company, a job that suited his love of engines and his gift for fixing things other people had given up on. Colleagues remembered him as the first to arrive and the last to leave, always with a thermos of coffee and a story about the road. In retirement, he took up woodworking, built a porch swing for every one of his children, and never missed a Friday night high school football game.

He is remembered by everyone who knew him as steady, generous, and quick with a joke — a man who could fix a carburetor, recite half of Willie Nelson's discography from memory, and make a stranger feel like an old friend within five minutes of meeting him. He will be deeply missed, and forever loved.

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Stories and Memories

  • Photo of Michael Anderson

    Michael Anderson

    Son · November 10, 2025

    Dad somehow knew every back road in Texas. I used to think he was just guessing, but he'd get us there every time, usually with a story about the town we were passing through. I'm going to miss riding shotgun and hearing those stories more than almost anything.

  • Photo of Susan Anderson-Reyes

    Susan Anderson-Reyes

    Daughter · November 11, 2025

    Every single porch swing in our family was built by my father's own hands. He never let a birthday or a new house go by without one. Mine still creaks in exactly the spot he said it would, and I never want it fixed.

  • Photo of David Anderson

    David Anderson

    Son · November 12, 2025

    Dad taught me to ride, to fix a truck, and mostly, to be patient with people. He never raised his voice in his life, not once, and I think about that every day now that I have kids of my own.

  • Photo of Emily Reyes

    Emily Reyes

    Granddaughter · November 13, 2025

    Grandpa Rob always had a peppermint in his shirt pocket for us, every single time, no matter how many years went by. Small thing, but I'll never forget it.

  • Tom Whitfield

    Brother-in-law · November 14, 2025

    Robert and I spent forty years arguing about the right way to smoke a brisket. He was wrong the whole time, but I'd give anything for one more argument with him.

  • Carla Jennings

    Family Friend · November 15, 2025

    He fixed my car in his driveway more times than I can count and never once let me pay him. Robert was the kind of neighbor everyone deserves and so few people get.

Timeline

  1. June 1, 1960

    Enlisted in the U.S. Army

  2. May 18, 1968

    Married Margaret "Peggy" Whitfield

  3. September 14, 1972

    Birth of son Michael

  4. 1979

    Moved to the Bandera property

  5. January 1, 1992

    Retired from Lone Star Regional Trucking after 32 years

Military Service

Veteran
Branch
U.S. Army
Rank
Sergeant
Service Dates
June 1, 1960 – May 30, 1964
Conflicts
Cold War era service, stationed stateside and in West Germany
Medals & Honors
Army Good Conduct Medal

Organizations & Affiliations

  • First Baptist Church of Bandera

    Church

    Member and usher, 1975–2025

  • Lone Star Regional Trucking

    Employer

    Service Manager, 32 years

  • VFW Post 76

    Volunteer Organization

    Post member since 1965

Where They Rest

Headstone of Robert James Anderson at San Fernando Cemetery III

San Fernando Cemetery III

1100 W Woodlawn Ave
San Antonio, TX 78201

Section
14
Plot
237

Enter through the main entrance and continue straight approximately 300 yards. Turn left at the large oak tree. The grave is in the third row on the right.

Map showing the approximate headstone location

29.39421, -98.52784

Relatives

  • Michael Anderson

    Son

  • Susan Anderson-Reyes

    Daughter

  • David Anderson

    Son

  • Emily Reyes

    Granddaughter

  • Walter Anderson

    Father

Guestbook

  • Linda Ortiz

    November 16, 2025

    Robert was such a kind soul. Thinking of the whole Anderson family during this time.

  • James Whitfield

    November 15, 2025

    Uncle Robert always had time for everyone. He will be deeply missed by all of us.

  • Patricia Neal

    November 14, 2025

    So many good memories of Robert at the Friday night football games. A true gentleman.

  • George Kimball

    November 13, 2025

    Served alongside Robert many years ago. A good man and a good friend. Rest easy, brother.

  • Anna Delgado

    November 12, 2025

    Sending love to Peggy and the entire family. Robert's kindness touched so many of us.

  • The Whitfield Family

    November 11, 2025

    A wonderful husband, father, and friend. He will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.

Lovingly Maintained By

Memorial Creator

Photo of Margaret AndersonMargaret "Peggy" Anderson · Spouse
  • Photo of Michael AndersonMichael Anderson · Son
  • Photo of Susan Anderson-ReyesSusan Anderson-Reyes · Daughter
  • Photo of Emily ReyesEmily Reyes · Grandchild